And the answer is...
..."some guy."
No, really. I at least knew N and Ch, but I swear I'd never seen this guy before.
Ah well, it was surprisingly fun anyway. R and T made me dance. With glowsticks. No, seriously. And I did so with near-mediocrity, at least after they'd taken away the ones on long cords that I kept hitting myself in the head with.
Of course, we had to bring in outsiders who actually knew what they were doing. Said outsiders invited me to the local dance club (TH has a dance club?) for Drag Night on Monday. I'm not sure why they invited me to this particular event. I hope it wasn't their gentle way of telling me that I looked like a guy in drag. <;-)>
These guys and girls and guys-as-girls were surprisingly nice. It made me a bit sad to think of the fit my mother would throw if she knew I'd been to an event where there were people dressed as members of the opposite sex. The horror!
C'est la vie.
Speaking of my mother, she's recovering quite nicely, but she's still nervous about the idea of travelling. This means we probably won't be going to NC for a while, probably not before I leave for Seattle. I have mixed feelings about this. On the one hand, I feel bad not being able to visit my grandmother when she's so frightened (possibly with cause). On the other hand, flying or driving out the day I drove back from TH would have been painful at best.
And this way I get more free time with E. In theory.
The last time I really talked with E, he was in a hell of a bind. The family business has been run into the ground, and he is now trying to decide whether to bail now (by throwing in all the assets he has and leaving) or hang on in the hope of correcting matters. I didn't venture my opinion to him - it's really not my place to do so, since the choice is so personally charged - but I want to see him get out. His family isn't responsible enough that he can trust them with his good faith, or with his future. Nor do they care for him in the way he cares for them.
Quite apart from my desire not to lose him, it bothers me to see someone give when their generosity is received thus. Too much sympathy? Maybe. I was generous in that way once, I think.
Maybe.
